Hi- thanks for taking a moment to view and read my profile. Now the formalities are out of the way --let’s talk or rather you read on some more…

So obviously I’m on POF at an attempt to find a possible man that can be a friend first with the possibility of more.

Now let’s do a quick review of my profile: Yes, I am single; never married, no kids --that’s right zero! pretty sure I would know if I popped one out, I am plus size/fat/full-figured/voluptuous/curvy –whatever terminology you would like to use insert. As for my personality and character: I’m witty/sarcastic, smart, affectionate, honest, and caring.

Now that we have completed the quick review and let’s move on. Like most everyone else I have preferences. Side note: why do people get offended by other people’s preferences when they themselves have them? Ok, back to the preferences, I prefer the following –ready, set, go! A man taller than me (quick check my height), non-white men, medium build (if you describe yourself as a big teddy bear that is not medium build –fellows get on the ladies about saying a few extra pounds when they are really fat, but can apply the same principles to their own bodies) non-smoker, intelligent and educated, someone extremely fun and funny, affectionate, honest, and loyal. Lastly, if you have kids it’s not a deal breaker, but I do prefer men w/o kids.

All that stuff being said -- I am looking for someone who accepts me for all that I am, and all that I am capable of being. Also, someone who wants to be accepted the same way in return. We all have flaws -- eventually you love people friends or lovers because of their flaws, right?

Sorry for the lengthy blog-like profile, but if you made it to here, good job! Again thanks for taking the last minute or two from your day to read a little about me.

I promise this is the last thing: if you decide you would like to send me a message, please do. But please please do not send one word message or message that is in text message form. Example: How r u? come on fellows ;-) come better than that…


Take care, Happy fishing!

First date: Hmmm, I prefer the man to plan and not tell me anything other than how to dress for the occasion. But if I were planning it would be lunch or dinner someplace causal. If dinner goes well, and we both are enjoying ourselves, then we continue by taking a walk or going to lounge/coffee shop.

I will say, I really don't care for movies on the first date.