Enigma......According to Webster's Dictionary,obscure speech or writing, something hard to understand or explain, an inscrutable or mysterious person. It is also a German electronic enciphering machine, but what I relate to is the Music of Enigma. Return to Innocence, Mea Culpa, The Eyes of Truth, Silent Warrior, Ancient Person of my Heart, just to name a few.

Enigma......Isn't that what life is? A mystery? Dating, Relationships, Getting to know that other person for who they really are? Been there, done that in many aspects of my life, where is it that you are really going. Is it about what you have or don't have? Or is it that one person that will complete your life? Not that you need someone, not that you need someone. I look at my parents, in there 80's, both living and have been married for over 60 years now. What do they have that I don't, that so many of us on here don't have or never will have?

If you really want to know me it takes a lot more than a few words on this dating site. It is more than just a picture. Much more than the dates that you go on and you really never know that person, it takes so much more than that.

So I could tell you about all the things that I like to do, how active I am all the time, or all about the material things that I have or don't have, but.... The Truth? Getting older, looking for the simple things in life. Someone to share my life with, someone that wants to share there life with me. What do I really do? I work, enjoy my home life, enjoy the wonderful Michigan summers that we have. Spend time at the lake that I grew up on, enjoy my parents while I still have them. In the winter, do things around the house.

I don't have to be on the go all the time. I am finding out that a little down time, just spending that time with someone that is important to you is the best time.

The Return to Innocence by Enigma, It is not the beginning of the end, that is the return to yourself, it is the return to innocence.

Feel free to write me, this is a dating site, woman can contact men also.

What is with this, I just had to turn the heat on, is summer over with? Would be nice to find someone to cuddle up to this winter. You don't have to be shy, you can write also.

We can decide that when we talk.