I've come to realize that I'm not LOOKING for a relationship. I have found more friends on here than anything. I am busy with life and although I would love to find that one person to hold my heart I will stay single until I feel a REAL connection. So anyone I meet on here I will take as a new friend. If something more magically comes out of it I'll be more than ready to make it work. I don't want to waste my time or yours with something that isn't what either of us is looking for. I've done plenty of that with others in my past. I'd rather be straight forward than fake like many people on here.

I'm an open book... if you want to know....ask! If you have been married, already have children or don't want children please move on. Been there.....done that more than once. I want someone to share those firsts with together.

I don't like to try and put myself into a box. I would rather have fun answering/asking questions if there is an interest on both ends.

Something simple... maybe coffee after work. I consider first dates more like making a new friend. If you can't find a friendship you'll never get more out of it.