*** Bring on the Cool guy PLEASE!!! I have officially spent 2 months meeting so-so guys. Please bring on the one that is normal, still a rockstar, professional but tatted up. Has their own life, enjoys their family and friends. Doesn't always have to "HAVE PLANS". Doesn't own pleated khaki pants, Likes to go to live shows, Knows what the Dirty Show is, and knows how to kiss.**
I enjoy spending my time with friends and family. This past year I have tried to get involved in as many charity events as possible. Including mentoring foster kids and the breast cancer 3-day walk. Please be a genuine, kind person. If it is hard work for you to be nice, yikes, then please move on!

Things that I find attractive in a guy... Kind, Friendly, Chatty, Has a professional job but is still tatt'd up, is creative and analytical, He can plan and be spontaneous. He is close with his family and wants a family of his own. He knows the difference in being a cat person vs. being a dog person.

I enjoy travel to new places, street fairs, art shows, tattoo conventions, bbq's and being a fill-in mom for my friends kids sporting events...

UPDATE 12/14/09... So I broke my leg on Saturday which is looking like it is going to limit this dating process since I can not drive for 6 weeks.... GRRRR

On a first date I strive for comfort... Casual conversations not a question and answer session! I think a first date is different then a first meeting. A meeting may be a cup of cider, coffee, tea, or drink. A first date should be centered around an activity like bowling, putt-putt, the horse track,professional sporting event, the DIA, etc. Something interactive and fun!