Well, lets start this off on a good note. I am single, don't do drugs, I own my house, have a job I love, and great friends and family. Why am I here? I'm here cause I'm done with trying to find someone at a bar or club. I am very athletic, and take good care of my self. I play hockey, soccer, and golf. I also coach an instrutional hockey team. I stay pretty busy in my social life, but I would love to find a special someone to share my life with. I love to cook, but also enjoy going out to eat. Like a good glass of wine, and also an ice cold beer after work. I am very easy to get a long with. I love going home, back to Chicago. I am looking for a girl who will stand along side me, through the good, and the bad. I'm looking for someone who is secure in their life, physicaly, mentaly, and spiritualy. One thing, please, no drama, life is too short to waste on drama.

The first date is kind of tricky, cause you want to do something that is fun, but doesn't make either person feel uncomfortable. I think a saturday or sunday afternoon lunch is a good start. I also think you should have something to do after lunch, just in case it goes well, maybe a wine tasting, or concert in the park. If she is into sports, maybe go to a game. The first date should be about talking and getting to know each other a little better. The rest will take care of its self.