*EDIT* I am who I say I am and am not responsible for the other idiots on this site who misrepresent themselves. It's a shame that people use the internet to be someone they are not.... If you need me to provide some references- I can... :-) LOL!! And if I'm ever "not nice" to you- you can tell my Mom!!

OK- The headline is accurate- ( sort of)- and funny to me.... My best friend gave me a sticker once that said "I'm Not Nice".... I can be... it just takes me letting down my guard.... I don't do that very often....


I HATE this part. I don't know how someone is expected to 'sell' themselves in a paragraph. So here goes nothing:

I am divorced.
I have kids.
There is minimal drama in my life currently and I would prefer it stay that way.
I am sarcastic.
I try to find humor in everything.
I am a fiercely loyal friend.
I am somewhat shy at first.
I am quiet unless I am completely sure of my surroundings.
I love old cars.
I love Motorcycles yet I find the recent love affair that most have with HD amusing.
I am opinionated.
I have a very deep voice. ( Think James Earl Jones deep)
I am not a 'serial' dater.
I know what I want and I refuse to settle.
I look younger than I am.
I act even younger (at times)
Most of my good friends are much younger than I am.
I am a hopeless romantic.
I still believe in that one 'true love'
I like hard rock music.
The phrase "Country Music" is an oxy-moron to me.....
I have NO tattoo's.
They don't bother me- I just haven't found anything that I need to write on my person in permanent ink...
I have no piercings either. Unless you count the scars I have....
I understand that even Mens shoes and belt color should match.
I will NEVER wear sandals ( not even with socks)

Oh- and lastly- I do not smile much... never really have except for those times when I have felt LOVED..... It has been a while.....


My ideal match would be:
smart ( nothing is sexier than intelligence)
funny ( if you can't laugh about it- it WILL kill you)
independent ( a relationship should be based on a 'want' rather than a 'need')
attractive (as subjective as that may be- however H/W should be proportionate)

I guess I'll know her when I see her..... If you happen to know her- please send her my way.... she won't be sorry!!!

First dates are difficult. I would do my best to make it as relaxing as possible and low-key. Ideally it would be one that allowed some conversation so we could get to know each other.... and hopefully lead to a 2nd, more in depth date.