Work 2 jobs and love both of them. Appreciate a stimulating conversation more then good looks, but wouldn't mind both. Very busy with work, friends and family, so take advantage of any downtime I get. Aspire to be successful in my careers, but more concerned about being a good husband and father when the time comes. Pet peeves are girls that post up pictures of themselves in bikinis in a mirror making a kissy face. One of those is cute, anymore and I start to get sick to my stomach. If you're looking for a guy showing off his body with a fresh orange glow from the tanning bed, look elsewhere!

Something simple and short, like coffee. Very casual and open ended so if either one of us decides its not working it is easy to bail after a short period of time, but if it goes well still easy to continue the date. Public place, not very intimate for a first date. I have a phobia of creepy people and believe the internet is full of them so an early evening cup of coffee seems like a safe place! Oh yea, I need someone to challenge me. Original thought and differing opinions are important, so be able to have a conversation about more then what happened on The OC last week!!