My aspirations are to sit at starbucks sipping a green tea latte with a bohemian openminded woman who sees the absurdities of life on a daily basis, to find a woman who LIKES horror films and listening to the White Stripe, who realizes there are not absolutes. I love the outdoors and generally prefer the company of animals over most people. I would call myself a child of the 60'sand 70's in mind and spirit. I love to read aburdist type literature and mystery/horror novels. Don't let my love of horror films scare you, it goes back to my childhood. I also love adult comedies and films that do not have typical hollywood endings. I really and truely do not act my age and likely never will. I love music and it is very important in my life. Some I love: Grateful Dead, Bruce Springsteen,Beatles and of course the White Stripes. I have no kids and thats cool. I have two new kittys. I love autumn, the sun, the moon and the stars. I love taking walks in the moonlight when the earth is silent. What else? I have long black hair but am thinking about cutting it just for a change. I also write but for a living i am a substance abuse counselor. Also have traveled quite abit and love doing so. Would love to one day live near the coast. Looking for someone to laugh with, to play with and to love. I do not act nor look my age and doubt that i ever will, what's the point? I like to think and live outside the proverbial box. Random iterests: agnostic/atheist, animals, Art-Cubism and surrealist, books, Buddhism, color red/back, David Lynch, ghosts, green tea, Horror films, intelligent people, Judaism, life, night owl, night strolls, philosophy, Scorpios, socialism, the 60's, the ocean, Tim Dorsey, UFO's, vegetarian, White Stripes, yoga...

I never plan ahead, that way my expectations remain realistic (whatever that means). Ideally it would be spontaneous! Starbucks!