Wanted: Genuinely good guy who is fun and funny, successful and secure, happy, a good listener and a "good talker", and well, available. Are you out there?

If so, I may be the one for you. The key to chemistry with me is laughter and great conversation. I love being active and I love laying on the couch. I love traveling and staying home. I like going out and staying in. I love a good conversation and I appreciate peace and quiet. Needless to say, I'm easy going and flexible.

Museums and art galleries make me narcoleptic. I'm low maintenance and can be ready in 15 minutes. I like to entertain and when I do, it's always casual with lots of appetizers, something on the grill and kids running around.

I'm looking for the real deal. Someone who will appreciate me as much as I appreciate him. Someone who knows that happiness is entirely based on attitude and is willing to see the good in life. My favorite quote about successful relationships says that you "have to have rose-colored glasses on even as time and familiarity take their toll." I'm looking for someone who gets that and puts on his rose-colored glasses when he needs to as the relationship inevitably ebbs and flows through the years. I also need someone who is open to getting to know (eventually) my hilarious, sweet and sometimes maddening boys. I've got a heart of platinum and an almost full life... just missing a genuinely good guy.

Coffee. You spend enough time together that you can decide if you want to spend more time together but it's not so much time that you regret it if you aren't a match.