Update: If you read my profile I will tell you what I am interested in and the kind of man I am looking for. I am amazed at the amount of mail I am receiving from men who have zero in common with me. I don't mean to be negative, but please pass me by if:
1. You have a picture of yourself with a woman on your profile. I want someone who is ready for a relationship...with ME.
2. You post more than one picture of your pets, I love animals, but I am interested in you, not your pets.
3. There is a picture of you in camoflage, with a gun, in a deer blind, with beer cans all around you on your profile.
4. Your profile is an add for Harley Davidson. I love motorcycles, I got my first one when I was 8. I loved the feeling of the wind in my hair and being in control of all that power. So, I get it, but, I had a couple of bad accidents that made me give them up. I don't have a problem with you riding, but if it's a huge part of your life, we are not a match. I don't want to be a Harley widow.
5. You are a nascar fan...I don't get it, and don't want to try to get it.
6. You are not taller than me. I am 5'11" and I like to wear heels. I don't mind being a little taller, but not alot taller than my date.
7. You are involved in so many activities that you don't have time to date. It's great to have alot of interests, but if you are so busy that you don't have time to get to know someone, what's the point of looking for a relationship?
The reason I am on this dating site is to try to find a man who has interests in common with me and is ready for a relationship. I hope that is why you are here, as well, and if so, please read on...

I am really alot of fun, not the life of the party or the center of attention, but I roll with the flow pretty well. I have a good time whether we are doing one of my favorite things or not. I love to laugh and try to find something to laugh at everyday, whether it's a book, a movie, or finding a comedian on you tube, I NEED laughter.

I love traveling to new places, experiencing new cultures, going to see cool exhibits that come to local museums, or just hanging out at home when the weather is nice, and working in my yard, or laying in the hammock with a cool drink and a good book.

I enjoy listening to lots of different kinds of music, and just love being turned on to a new band or just someone I haven't listened to before. Concerts are a real treat, especially if I am seeing someone I have been listening to for years. Favorites include Eric Clapton, Al Green, Allman Brothers, Bonnie Raitt,Paulo Nutini, Sly, Tom Petty, John Mayer, Clint Black, Talking Heads, ZZ Top, Keb Mo,Little Feat, Tina Turner, Terri Hendrix, and so many more,

My job is very important to me and I love what I do. I am at a point where I can work 3 or 4 days a week and take off pretty much when I want to and would love to find a man who is at a similar place in his career.

I am passionate about my life. I have alot of close friends and family and I love them dearly. I am grateful for all the joys life brings, large and small.

What I am looking for in a man is strength, comfort, passion, trust, fun, love, excitement, companionship and understanding...which happen to be the same things I expect to give him in return. This man is confident and comfortable in his own skin. He enjoys traveling and experiencing new things. He is open minded, smart, has a great sense of humor and is always up for a little adventure. He has alot of interests. He has his own life and friends and activities, but he is looking for a partner, lover and companion, and has time for a relationship. I think a man who can cook a great meal is very sexy. I am looking for a man who appreciates all the things a woman does for him, and he makes her want to keep doing those things. It would be wonderful if he is at the same place in his life that I am...kids pretty much grown, lots of free time to play, and ready to fall in love.

If you are still reading, please say hello and tell me your 5 favs...5 favorite places you've been, or 5 fav songs, movies, meals, books, people, memories, whatever...It's a good ice breaker.

Let's meet for a coffee or drink, and if there is an attraction, go from there.