Hi...so awkward... I am new back on the dating scene after my husband passed away. I am looking to move very slowly in any relationship I develop because I am in no hurry to get attached or married. I am looking to get back out and have lots of fun. I love to go dancing, listen to bands, go out to a nice dinner or cook one, and just hang out. I have done extensive traveling but I would love to do more. Most important to me are my two young children that I am raising on my own. They come first in any situation, and the right man will understand and expect that. I don't mind if you have kids-- I love them! I just don't want to have any more myself. I consider myself pretty laid back. I trust and believe unless I am given a reason not to... I like to be spontaneous (when I can haha), do really out of the blue things, and just go sometimes... I am looking for someone who I can laugh with...that is most important in a good relationship. We have to be able to laugh with (and at) each other!

Turn Offs:
-Men that wear gold jewelry
-Men that wear pinkie rings (gold or not)
-Men that only talk about sports
-Men that only talk about cars
-Men that only talk about sex (well, depends on the location hehe)
-Men that can't make a decision (C'mon, don't make me decide every time!)
-Men that **** about kids, men that don't respect kids, men that are annoyed by kids
-Men that need to be taken care of- I don't want to be your mother... I've had that role and it sucks...

Turn Ons:
-Men that are musically inclined- play an instrument, sing, or try to do either
-Men that either can dance or can't and don't care- dance like nobody's looking!
-Men that notice when a woman takes time to look good- yes, we love compliments!
-Surprises
-Spontaneity
-Proper Grammar and Spelling
-Men that shower and wear cologne (seriously) but don't take longer than me to get ready
-Tattoos
-Tattoos
-Did I say tattoos? However these are not a requirement... I just have a thing...
-Live blues, jazz, old classic country, rock... Sitting in a club listening to good music, whether you can talk over it or not. There's always time for talking!

I am really open to what happens on a first date. I think it should be laid back and casual, with no pressure, so we can relax and get to know each other. It could be anything from dinner to a concert to some dancing.