I am ready for a change and am ready to find what I am looking for. In the last two years I have become enlightened to the fact that many people on here do not have a clue of what they want, they say one thing but their actions show a different scenario. I do not want to be one of those indecisive people. I have had ample time to find out who I really am and what my needs are, thanks to one person I met on here, thank you John! I also have found that waiting on the right person is worth it to me and therefore refuse to settle for less. I am confident that as a woman I am able to offer the right man love, honesty, fidelity, respect, compassion, understanding, nurturing and submission. I am looking to find someone who is deserving and would value these traits that I possess and is ready and willing to build a strong friendship that would lead to a long term relationship. I am looking for someone who knows that a healthy and happy long lasting relationship consist of emotional intimacy, physical intimacy and a spiritual and mental connection and without these four components a relationship will not survive, and is willing to build these four components together while we are bonding. I also want someone who knows that all relationships require lots of work, dedication and compromises, they must realize that there will be good times as well as bad times and working through the bad times is what will add additional strength to the relationship. I have needs as a woman that need to be met and expect that they can be met just like I am willing to meet your needs as a man. I expect to have my mate be there for me during the hard times to encourage me, to be there for me when I just need to be held and comforted, to be able to tell me "I Love You" and say it with sincerity. I am fully willing to reciprocate. I want to be able to be open minded with my mate and be able to discuss everything on my mind and they be able to do the same and feel comfortable about it.
If you feel the same way as I do please feel free to write me and if you are unsure, inquire and we can talk some more about it, if you are not willing to meet all the above then do not waste your time nor mine as I am adamant about what I want and what I am willing to accept.

I would like to defer my answer here as I feel that this should be a mutual decision between the two parties as each person is different therefore one answer does not fit all. I just want it to be something fun and comfortable for both parties.