I'm not looking for love. If I find it and we fall madly in love, great. This is just my attempt to explain what I am looking for now. I'm going to lay it on the line here. I would like to make a good friend with benefits. A low stress situation would be great. You could call me up to go see a movie with you that nobody else wants to see. You could call me up just to **** about your day or to tell me to get over to you right now, or even just come knock on my door after a late night out. I will not judge your motives or ask anything from you that you don't want to give. I would also like the same from you. Right now, for me, having a fun lady friend without all the relationship presure stuff added in would be perfect. I hope that I am describing this well. So far I've learned that I'm a pretty good lover but not the best boyfriend. I can be sweet but seem very rarely to hit romantic although I try. I spent a while looking for the deep and serious relationship and have come around to the idea that maybe it's just not in the cards right now. I'm not a player. I don't have a black book. I'm also not sad or desperate, just trying to be honest. I am just hoping that two lonely people could connect.

We could meet wherever you want. If I'm not your cup of tea or your not mine then we can just say so and go our seperate ways.