A first date doesn't have to be extreme. I do however think that Tim Horton's, is a rather bad first date. A good movie, can't hurt. A nice meal in a nice restaurant, not a noisy one. This will open the conversation lines. Walks on the trails, could also open up, what is needed to see if you click, on some degree. I find it important, as awkward, as it can be, for two people to look into each other's eyes when talking. It shows that you can be interested. Sometimes, a first date can take you by surprise, that is why, you should use your imagination, women like to be pleasantly surprised, not horrified. Very spontaneous suggestions, can be very enlightening. I love when a man, doesn't have to second guess you. I can easily adapt to any situation, I find that you need to do that in todays society. I would love to find, that particular man, that makes you laugh, isn't at a loss for words, can also adapt to any situation. Have a positive outlook on life. Holding no resentment on past experiences. Willing to try new things. Likes all aspects of music, as I do. I look for the good in all people. I do not put judgements on people, as you don't know their story. I am open for a challenge, how about you?

I always believe, say what you mean and mean what you say.

Work to live, don't live to work.

I don't want to be everything to everyone, I want to be something, to someone.

Look for strengths in people, not weaknesses; for good, not evil. Most of us find what we search for.

The capacity to care is the thing that gives life its deepest meaning and significance.

Laughter, heals a lot of hurts.

We are not rich by what we possess, but rather, by what we can do without.

A first date, rather hard to say, as everyone is so different. I think that it should be something that you both, agree upon. Whether it be, coffee, tea, lunch, dinner, walking on a trail, a drive in the country, I think that should remain open to the individuals.

Happiness resides, not in possessions and not in gold. The feeling of happiness dwells in the soul.