Every woman on this site seems to say they want honesty. Let's define honesty. Say what you mean and mean what you say. When you hear the truth, respond in truth, not silence. If you can't get past the simple stuff, how can you expect to form any kind of a relationship?

I like to be with positive people who are accomplished. Lazy people who watch TV alot don't do much for me. If you are still bitter over the ex or anyone else in your life, move on, I don't have the time. I am divorced from the first wife and recently widowed from my better half. She brought out the best in me and now I feel there is a lot left to be given back to the world. We were not put here on this earth to do it alone and I am looking for the one to help me through life.

I am self employed and work from home. I work with teens in a church group and help out in community type service. I love what I do and yet in all that I do for myself and others, I still come home to an empty house.

I don't feel there is such a thing as a really bad date. Maybe I haven't had one yet. It's all an experience and I love life. If it doesn't work out, it's not the end of the world. If it does work out, it feels like the beginning of the world. I don' care what we do or where we meet.

Give it a shot, nothing ventured nothing gained!