I'm a laid back, low maintnance, genuine woman who just wants to fall in love with my best friend! It doesn't matter if we go out, stay in, or do both as long as i'm with the one i love. My favorite music is country but i have been known to listen to other stuff on occasion. I'm studying to work in the field of psychology and have a passion for children and animals. I am pretty busy with school and work at the moment but would love to have someone to hang out with when i do have the free time. I have been known to sacrifice my wants, needs, and plans just to be there for a friend or significant other. I wear my heart on my sleeve and that does cause me problems but it's who I am. God is very important in my life and I attend church regularly. I'm looking for someone who can be my best friend, companion, and soulmate. I don't ask for much in a relationship, but a few of the very important things are honesty, communication and affection. I know my profile is long, I just wanted to post a few extra things :) If you are interested in knowing more, please contact me! Please note that I don't date smokers, drinkers (more than just a casual drink), druggies, and people who aren't Christians! PLEASE DON'T CONTACT IF YOU DON'T ACTUALLY WANT A RELATIONSHIP, I'M DONE GETTING HURT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

28 ways to make a girl smile . . .

1 . Tell her she is beautiful, not hott, fine or sexy.
2 . Hold her hand at any moment even if it just for a second.
3 . Kiss her on the forehead.
4 . Leave her voice messages to wake up to.
5 . Always tell her you love her at any and all times.
6 . When she is upset hold her tight and tell her how much she means to you.
7 . Recognize the small things . . . They usally mean the most.
8 . Call her sweety or baby or honey.
9 . Sing to her no matter how horrible your voice is.
10 . Pick her over all the other girls you hang out with.
11 . Write her notes. {she loves them}
12 . Introduce her to family and friends as your girlfriend.
13 . Play with her hair.
14 . Tickle her and play-wrestle with her.
15 . Sit in the park and just talk to her.
16 . Tell her funny jokes.. tell her stupid jokes.. just tell her jokes.
17 . Throw pebbles at her window in the middle of the night just because you missed her.
18 . Let her fall asleep in your arms.
19 . Carve your names into a tree.
20 . If she's mad at you, kiss her.
21 . Give her piggyback rides.
22 . Bring her flowers just because.
23 . Treate her the same around your friends as you do when your alone.
24 . Look her in the eyes and smile.
25 . Let her take as many pictures of you as she wants.
26 . Slow dance with her, even if there isn't any music playing.
27 . Kiss her in the rain.
28 . If you're in love with her . . . tell her.



If a man wants you, NOTHING can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

STOP making excuses for a man and his behavior, you'll only blame yourself later

Allow your iNTUITION to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourselves for a ..relationship that's not meant to be.

SLOWER is better.

NEVER live your life for a man before you find what makes
YOU truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then hell no, you can't "be friends."A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't SETTLE. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "..it ..will get better." You'll be MAD at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is YOU.

Avoid ..men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.

He DIDN'T marry them when he got them pregnant, Why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends SEPERATE from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

If something bothers you, SPEAK up.

Never let a man know everything.HE WILL use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior.Change comes from WITHIN.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.

! HE IS A MAN, nothing more, nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.
COMMUNICATION is key.
Trustworthiness is better..

Never BORROW someone else's man.

Oh Lord! If he cheated with you, he'll CHEAT ON YOU

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues BEFORE PURSUING a new relationship You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is IS FUN...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right.

Make him MISS YOU sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your always readily available to him- he TAKES IIT FOR GRANTED
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.