AMy very direct and unequivocal profile can be easily misconstrued as being "too much of this or that" consequently I rarely ,if ever ( even if I've viewed your profile and find you appealing ) make the first contact.

I know who I am and I'm only;y going to be interested in a woman who has a similar sense ( or at least a burning curiosity ) about herself. So if you "get" what I'm saying and think it's worth pursuing all you have to do is say so and, hopefully , one thing will lead to another.

As I've stated the way I "am" is often seen as being too "blunt" or "direct" .....whether that's the case or not it's representative of how I feel and what I think.

Consequently if, after reading what I view as the particular "environment" and mindset that will best separate the wheat from the chaff for me........ and you wish to find out if I am who & what I say I am, you'll want to contact me . That way even if were not exactly "on the same page".... at the very least, we can be reading the same book with a similar point of view.

While distance is not a problem if there's a reason to not let it be a problem, for starters you should be geographically close enough so that you can meet me or be in my zip code within an hour or so......if we decide we wish to meet.....to see if it's more than words and claptrap.......then that should happen sooner rather than later.

BEFORE I GO ON, Unfortunately I have to say this for both our sakes. It seems that some women, for whatever misguided reason , feel that despite the fact I have not contacted them, are nevertheless compelled to write & tell me what I need to do to find the "right" women ( herself of course),what is "wrong" with my preferences, my views and on & on......Please if you fall into that category..save it..it will have zero impact on me and will only serve to demonstrate you have way too much time on your hands. One would think anyone with more than afew brain cells would agree that the last thing anyone needs is a stranger telling them who they should be!

Now on to the "blurb"

Assuming there's mutual interest, you should be close enough that you can meet me & be in my zip code within an hour or so.

If you are of the mindset that I right away "need" to be any way other than I am , or you "want to take things slow" , become be good "friends" first , "just aren't sure" about what or how you feel, you need more than a couple email exchanges to feel comfortable talking on the phone ( so there's tonality , inflection and association to our conversation), aren't then open to ( sooner rather than later) meet for a drink or coffee, or just don't feel l like our meeting has the potential to be something exciting, interesting, (and yes) hot, then I suggest the best course of action is for you to click "NEXT " !

Hopefully you are as engaged in your life as I am and agree with me that while little is black & white where affairs of the heart are concerned one should follow their instincts and they should be strong!

As a life perspective I am very much into function over form. It's great to have them both but , no question , it's far more important to me how something it FEELS than how it sounds or looks or seems.

I like the way I am, like what I like and I do what I do because that's my preference not because I'm part of or want to be in the "lifestyle" or some "scene" . I've always been , for lack of a better term, assertive not because I follow a format, a punch list, want to play a role or for any other reason other than, again, that's how & who I am! Matching a punch list is great but one should not have to fit into someone else's idea of who they should be.

The only thing in life that can't be replaced is time. Nothing is more valuable . I'm not going to waste yours, don't waste mine. I say what I mean, I mean I you say and would expect the same from you!

You should be a woman who knows what she needs & likes , or at the very least one is ready to find out what those "things" are. You should either be able to appreciate both the who and the way that I am and not only accept it but like it and more. I know who I am, both the good and the bad... I like who I am ...and you should too....there will be no confusion about what I want , what I expect and that should work both ways ... .....you are your "own" woman who knows when it's time to be you .....and also when it's time to be mine.

I am not interested in a doormat or a "Yes Dear" woman..It's great if you have a backbone..you just need to know when it's in your best interests to bend! Only a strong woman who knows herself can choose to be submissive when the moment and time is right. You should be able & ready to feel & release and allow yourself to seek, to be taken to wherever it is you can go! And to be smart enough to know who can or cannot take you there.

Short term or long term (and frankly I prefer it end up being long term) , it's whatever works and feels right. I know what I like ( and what I don't ) and how I like it if you're honest with yourself , you know the same about you. Profile "Matches" are a starting point but it's the total mix that matters. if you find someone that looks or sounds perfect on paper , guaranteed there's a catch..so while it's great to find someone that seems to match, click or "be the one". the proof is in the pudding, it's always going to be how you FEEL about it!

At this point I'm not interested in the details that make up the "spice of your life" ..it's your core foundation and whether there's chemistry, both physical, emotional and cerebral . You can't fake that, you can't fabricate that and it's the one thing that can't be "worked" on ......Of course if there's a growing mutual interest I would want to know everything but it's not the punch list match...we can then deal with what we do and don't agree with ,later .
You don't ( & probably won't) need to agree with me on everything as long as you have an open mind to be shown another view and that your opinions have some basis other than they are simply your opinions. The Devil is always in the details.. In the end it's about the chemistry . After all, without that spark, that heat , what's the point?

If you've read this far you understand that I'm not for everybody . That's fine....I like that .I embrace who I am.I don't ( nor do I want to) "fit" anyone else's idea of who I should be As they say Better One Day as a Lion than a Lifetime as a Lamb.

You'll have to be someone very special & unique in order to be interested in me and more importantly for me to be interested in you. I believe that a big part of the "beginning' is that both of us feel the other is really something special without having to have a list as to why that is!

If that's the case and you do know, or at the very least are real curious to see.LMK if not , please don't waste another minute

If after speaking on the phone we continmue to have a mutual desire to go further, whatever works for us to comfortably get together and see if there's a reason to "see". I absolutely believe that chemistry both emotional & physical is the minimum requirement to go further. That can usually be determined within a very short time.