I like noticing a woman's eyes and smile first.
I am a gentleman that still opens doors and will walk on the correct side of the side walk while by your side on a stroll.** UPDATE: I added recently the pictures of me and my brother in front of an old grocery store - That is a store that helped to put both of us through College when we lived in Wheaton, IL. As for the picture of me on a wood deck... that is his back yard in West Chicago, IL. both were taken 06.08.08 .. The picture of the home with 2 of my 3 sons - that is a proud moment for me! In Oct 07 I moved into a brand new home 3 BR 2 Bth w/ Den - can you tell I am proud?
** No picture - then please describe yourself in the initial email... and be ready with a photo soon thereafter... please? ** fair is fair**
Ok the basics: I have been married only 1 time. I have 3 wonderful sons that are as of 2008: 25, 24 and 18... 25 and 18 turn another year in November and the 24 y/o turns a new year every May.
I really enjoy the season down here during December, Jan, Feb and March... How about you join me for the outdoor concerts at Vinoy Park... Rib Fest Rocks ~ and in the early Spring the Blues Fest which is excellent too!
I would like to meet someone that is well educated, a good conversationalist a lady that will listen and can maintain a good conversation. Are you a bit of a flirt? Just have some self confidence and live freely without a jealous bone... I would love to meet a woman that is adventurous with travel and simple weekend events.
I want a GREAT relationship... with a woman of self confidence and can meld together and build on our chemistry ~ I know you are out there... waiting... We will communicate in the silence of a "look" from across the room, with a wink or a nod as well in the words we whisper to one another.
I enjoy the game of golf... I am not a great player! It can be a fantastic first date too! Think of it - 9 or 18 holes of riding in a cart together, talking and laughing at ourselves and just having some fun!
I also enjoy Bicycling - but NOT riding with a pack at 20-25 mph!
I am more of an independent rider that likes to get out for only about 10-15 miles and get a good work out.
YOU DO NOT have to be into bicycling or Golf for that matter - these are not a deal breakers.
I wish you all the best... we ALL deserve the best match we can realize!
Tom
I want to talk by phone before any meet and greet date arrangements. It is so vital to pick up voice intonations and the personality of whom I choose to meet with a series of phone calls. The typing of messages or chats back and forth gets real old real quick - so let's keep it to a minimum - please?.
The first meetings are usually a local casual dining restaurant, a restaurant by the water near sunset -so that we can walk the beach if we are really hitting it off.
Or it can be simple a meet at a Starbucks or a local pub with some nice music. Miniature Golf and or Bowling could be a great way to talk and have some fun too! Let's talk and let's see where our first venture will take us... Talk to you soon?
Tom
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