I am a 40 year old woman. I have 5 kids and 1 grand daughter who is 3. 3 of my kids are already on their own. I am very honest and loyal to people I care about. I am a very straight foward person and I don't play mind games and I expect the same in return. I am shy when I first meet people and eventually I warm up to them.I am a great listener and shoulder to lean on. I have a big heart for people. I try to make everyone around me happy and usually forget about myself (I am working on that one). I need a manly man. He has to be honest and loyal. He has to be able to communicate well, there is no type of a relationship without communication. I communicate my feeling with no problems. I am looking for a man who can accept me for me...as I will him... I am looking for a friendship that can possibly turn into more...Please if you are racist, don't contact me..

I would like to go to a place where we can talk and be able to hear each other.