Ok, so here is the deal. I'm gonna boil all this internet dating down to a few simple paragraphs. The only way to determine 'CHEMISTRY' is to meet-in-person! Simple right? What you fill in this box will give you a glimpse as to what this person might be about, but the truth is, by listing your favorite movies, hobbies and mentioning that you just came back from an exotic trip this summer means
'diddley-squat'. Let's face it, it's only until you meet this person and are "into" them that this seems to matter. I think we can all agree that we spend too much time investing in people that we never meet or become nothing more then MSN chat buddies or facebook drafts. I myself have been guilty of chatting to people for weeks and months on end, chatting into the wee hours of the night over the phone and sharing childhood memories and life experiences, then you meet after all this build up and you're like...um...yeah...um...I wonder if anyone new wrote to me today on POF...and this is the problem with online dating and the source of most of our frustrations, right? Sending flirty emails and texts feeds into the imaginary relationship that never seems to pan out.

Writing down that you are funny, witty, charming and honest are all traits that have to be established in person and over time. They don't mean anything on paper.

Ok, so tell you what. Only contact me with the intention that you would like to meet me. What's an hour of your week. It's a coffee. Nothing more. Nothing less. You can't win the lottery if you don't buy a ticket.

I look good on paper but understand we can't be everyone's type. I'm 6'3, athletic build, clean shaven, and shop at the GAP. I have a university education and have a stable career. I drive and own property. I can dance and I go to church
when I can. I think I'm a pretty good guy, but I guess I will have to let you
decide for yourself.


Good Luck in your Search!

It's a coffee. It's not a date. It's one hour only. No cell phones.
It's an opportunity to meet someone that you would never get to meet in your everyday life. If there is a spark (after I have met you IN PERSON), this is when I invest my time and energy in getting to know you.