I am tenacious, loyal and family oriented. I am a nurturer so I tend to look out for those who can't look out for themselves. I have strong opinions but am willing to be open to listen to other persons views and thoughts and to learn from them when I can. I love Maine for the wide open spaces, the ocean, the lakes. I have very eclectic music tastes, My taste range from the likes of DMB, Damien Rice, Tom Waits , Alison Kraus and Union Station to NIN, Audioslave & the Foo Fighters. My taste in movies have just a wide of range, even though I love to watch a good scary movie the best. Life is short I try to live life to the fullest. I keep what's important to me , i.e.my friends and family close and try to leave all the other petty BS behind. I also try to conquer one of my fears a year. Trying to describe the person that is perfect for you is impossible. Nobody is perfect, we are human, we have flaws. I am looking for someone that is kind, someone that is open hearted, who has a sense of family. Most of all I am looking for someone to make me laugh. you cannot get through life without laughter