Sorry if this comes off b*tchy. That's not my intention. I just know what I want & what I don't. I've had gastric bypass surgery & am currently undergoing BIG changes so I can’t honestly put down my body type. It improves daily though & I'll be where I'd like come early Spring. I'm not a 'Barbie'. I'm more like her little sister 'Skipper'... who's just had twins. LOL If that bothers you please stop right here. I'm not athletic, toned, or slender, but I'm not morbidly obese either. I do enjoy martial arts, the treadmill/walking & swimming. I’d be willing to try more types of activity/exercise if taught by a patient person. It's so much easier with a partner. I wouldn't mind trying a few games of tackle football, baseball, hiking, snowmobiling or even volleyball. I need to rough house to let out built up energy. I'm deathly afraid of heights.

I HAVE A HIGH FUNCTIONING AUTISTIC TEENAGE SON. IF THE 2 OF YOU CAN'T HIT IT OFF THEN THERE WOULD BE NO FUTURE FOR YOU AND I. IT'S NOT JUST ME IN THE PICTURE. WHERE I GO, SO DOES MY SON. NOT NEGOTIABLE.

Please be 5'8" or taller. I have nothing against men who are shorter than that, but I like to look my partner at least eye to eye.PLEASE - DO NOT SMOKE - I hate the smell of cigars too - DO NOT USE DRUGS - DO NOT BE AN ALCOHOLIC - DO NOT HAVE A PORN OR SEXUAL ADDICTION ( NO I'M NOT A PRUDE ) - PLEASE BE COMPLETELY OVER YOUR EX. I'm a patient person, but DO NOT like to be left hanging, put on hold or expected to be a mind reader. If you have an interest in me say so. If you don't or no longer do for whatever reason please let me know that as well... Nicely. Please don't lead me on or leave me hanging. I've had too much disappointment in the past to deal with, accept and move on from. MY HEART STRINGS ARE NOT TOYS TO BE PLAYED WITH.

I'm Sioux Indian, French, English & Irish. I am a LMT - Licensed Massage Therapist. I LOVE what I do! I own my business. I make my own hours which gives me the flexibility I need for family, relationships & friends. - I'm not having any more kids. - I don't own a little black dress... yet - I live pay check to pay check - I'm not afraid of hard work - I don't smoke, drink or use drugs - I hate bugs! - I love lobster. - I use the word DUDE. LOL - I have an award winning sense of humor - I love to laugh & enjoy making others laugh. My humor can be raw & sarcastic but not mean or degrading. I'm a music lover & animal lover -

I love the intimacy of kissing. I never tire of it. From little pecks kisses to the mad, passionate ones where you're pinned up against the wall pawing at each other to holding the other's face in your hands and keeping your eyes open to watch their expressions. I want someone to get lost in MY eyes when they look at me. Take my breath away! I LOVE a man who is touchy feely & I dont mean a groper. - I'm faithful and monogamous in every aspect. Once I'm in a committed relationship with someone I'm not online chatting or talking on the phone with other men & I expect the same respect in return. -I dislike all this dating. I would much rather come home to THE ONE every night than trying to "sell myself" or impress over and over and over. I want and need only one. I'm looking for my LAST LIFE LONG special someone.I want to love and be IN love again. I CONSIDER MYSELF TO BE A VERY PASSIONATE PERSON IN MOST AREAS OF MY LIFE. I'm intrigued & inspired by things that "move" & consume as many of my 5 senses as possible. It would nice if you were passionate about something too. I am a kind hearted & giving person with good intentions only. - I'm at the age where "beating around the bush" is wasting time. I'm direct. If I’m feeling it, I say it. -

I Love listening to music - Tool, A Perfect Circle, Saving Abel, Default, Disturbed, Evanescence, Creed, Crossfade, Incubus, Saliva,Lacuna Coil,Korn and Joe Satriani are currently my favorite. I'm a rocker at heart but enjoy most styles of music. I enjoy Ottmar Liebert to Tower of Power to Barry White. However rap, hip hop & polkas make my brain bleed... and country if listened to too much just depresses the s**t outta me. - I've always wanted to see Montana, Alaska, Hawaii & Greece. Maybe someday I will. - I love quiet beaches, candle shops, Home Depot & Lowes, muscle cars, (I've always wanted a candy apple red 1965 Mustang convertable & "Scooby Doo" van), movies, drive-ins, musicals & theater, hidden little bed & breakfasts. - I love getting fresh veggies from the garden for meals, apple & any kind of berry picking. Bring on the fresh corn on the cob!- I enjoy outdoor concerts & comedy clubs, shooting pool, fishing, Maine lakes, listening to Loons in the early am hours and swimming.( my preference is in a pool ) - I would love to hop on the back of a motorcycle, hang on tight & just go. - leaf peeping, enjoy sunsets & rises and looking at the moon & stars. It wouldnt be uncommon to find me laying down bundled up in a blanket somewhere in the middle of the night watching a meteor shower. - I love Sci-Fi & action, Renaissance & Castles, Rustic & log homes, Halloween & Vampires but I'm FAR from being Goth. - I love seafood and chinese, eat my fruits & veggies & drink my water. - I love my knee hi moccacin boots and being barefoot. I'm more of a sweater, jeans & boots girl than a dress & hi heels but I'm not against them. I like Dunkin Donuts Decaf light with cream & splenda.

About You - Straight - Legally AND Emotionally SINGLE - Sane - MONOGAMOUS - Patient -Passionate - Strong & have stamina - Have desire & enthusiasm, Sensual & Romantic - sense of Humor & Respectful. If you're a liar, a cheat, a sneak or a BS artist you're NOT for me.
- Now THIS may seem nit-picky... but it's better I say it here than have it be an issue later on. PLEASE be a clean & kept person.
- Brush your teeth. I don't need or want to taste, see, or smell what you had for your last meal. They make disposable tooth brushes these days and mints or gum will do the trick after a meal.
- Shower before we go somewhere together. Use soap. Wash your privates. Brush your hair, unless your bald. Put on clean clothes and deodorant when youre done. I'm all for pheromones but not funk, filth, build up or neglect.
- Trim your finger & toenails. First, men should NOT have long nails. Second, If there should be a time where we become intimate... I DON'T want battle wounds when we are done. It's intimacy NOT a cage match!
I'm not a germaphobe, I'm not trying to "mother" you, & I'm NOWHERE NEAR perfect myself BUT, If I'm going to take the time to shower, shave, brush/style my hair, put on my face, take care of my nails and put on a clean, event appropriate outfit, I expect the same consideration in return.
So if you're still here... Do I sound like THE one for you? Can YOU get lost in MY eyes?