hello everyone! i'm aarin and this is my first time with a online dating service because i'm not with the whole club scene and what not. i'm a deep thinker, conversationalist, and poet/spoken word artist/aspiring writer, so what i'm looking for you can't find in a club that's usually a meat market for men and women. i'm currently in enrolled in trinity international university majoring in speech communication because i want to be a motivational speaker and i'm minoring in abnormal psychology. i currently volunteer with blackstar project, which is a mentor/big brother program for at-risk kids that tries to bridge the gap academically between those who have and those you have not. i'm a encourager, i inspire, and i motivate those i come in contact with. i love and get along with all races, creed, nationalities, ethnicities, and all walks of life. but if you're a racist, please steer clear of my page! and another thing! if you're one of those people who love and indulge yourself in black music as far as hiphop, r&b, jazz, or other black culture(whether it's fashion, slang, swagger, or just simply our way of life), black trends, or anything that we created or influenced but don't like us, don't want to be around us, or don't see yourself intermingling with us, you stay away from my page as well. because we got alot of people who love our culutre but don't like us. i'm proud of who i am and i'm a defender of my race and those who seek to capitalize off of it and don't want no part of us, is not a person i want contacting me. but if you want to be re-educated(you noticed i said reeducated and not educated)about us as a people then i'm there and vice versa. everyone on here teach me about you, your being, your culture. my ears, heart, and soul is open and receptive to it!


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MY PROFILE SAYS I'M LOOKING FOR A LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIP. IF THERE'S A WOMAN WHO WANTS TO CONTACT ME, THAT'S COOL BUT I'M NOT GOING TO LOWER MY STANDARDS TO SHORT CHANGE ME AND MY SON. I'M NOT LOOKING FOR A WOMAN TO JUST TALK ON THE PHONE OR TALK/EMAIL ON HERE EITHER. I'M HERE TO FIND A WOMAN WHO WANTS THE SAME THING THAT I WANT AND SHE'S NOT GOING TO SACRIFICE HER BELIEFS AND STANDARDS FOR ANYTHING. BECAUSE THE WOMEN I TALKED TO ON HERE JUST WANTED A PHONE OR EMAIL BUDDY AND I'M NOT LOOKING, SETTLING, OR WANT THAT! I WANT A WOMAN WHO KNOWS WANT SHE WANTS THE MINUTE HERE PROFILE SAYS IT.

IF YOU HAVE POOR SELF-ESTEEM OR YOU HAVEN'T LEARNED HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF, PLEASE DON'T CONTACT ME BECAUSE I'VE HAD WOMEN WHO SAY THAT WANT ME BUT THEY CONSTANTLY WANT ME TO REINFORCE MY STATEMENTS OF "HOW BEAUTIFUL THEY ARE AND THEY'RE WORTHY OF BEING LOVED". AS A WOMAN YOU SHOULD ALREADY KNOW YOUR WORTH. ONCE GOD CREATED YOU, YOU WERE ALREADY A MASTERPIECE. GOD DOESN'T MAKE JUNK, ONLY GODLY MASTERPEICES THAT ARE INVALUABLE! DON'T ALLOW A MAN TO DICTATE, DETERMINE, AND REGULATE WHAT YOUR BEAUTY, WORTH, AND EXISTENCE IS. IF GOD CREATED YOU, THEN YOU'RE WORTHY, BEAUTIFUL, STRONG, INVALUABLE, CHERISHED, HONORED, AND RESPECTED BY ME. BUT I'M NOT GOING TO CONTINUE TO REINFORCE THAT TO YOU. IF YOU DON'T BELIEVE IT, THAN HOW ARE YOU GOING TO BELIEVE IT WHEN A MAN TELLS YOU THAT. BEAUTY, SELF-WORTH, SELF-LOVE, AND RESPECT STARTS WITH YOU!

AND ONE MORE THING, IF YOU'RE A OVERLY SHY GIRL, PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME. LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR ALL THIS STUFF YOU PUT YOURSELF THROUGH. I'M A STRAIGHT-FORWARD, LET'S-DO-THIS TYPE OF MAN AND I DON'T APOLOGIZE FOR IT. I KNOW WHAT I WANT. DO YOU?

I'M NOT HERE TO HOLD A CONVERSATION WITH YOU OVER THE INTERNET, COMPUTER, OR PHONE. I'M HERE TO GET TO KNOW YOU AND YOU CAN'T DO THAT OVER THE INTERNET. THE INTERNET IS JUST WAY TO KEEP PEOPLE IMPERSONAL TOWARDS EACH OTHER. THERE'S NOTHING PERSONAL, INVOLVED, OR INTERACTING WHEN TALKING TO SOMEONE WHO WANT TO EXTEND FRIENDSHIP TO. THIS INTERNET HAS KEPT PEOPLE FROM ENGAGING AND BEING CONNECTED ON A SOCIAL INTERACTING LEVEL OF SOME SORT. THAT'S WHY PEOPLE TEXT AND EMAIL. NOT ME, NOT HERE!

****LIVE LADIES AND GENTLEMEN, NOT JUST EXIST!

first date, i will explain when we meet for the first time.