Im fun, easygoing,easy to talk to, I would rather laugh than argue or be upset. I think i have a good sense of humor... maybe a bit odd at times, as somethings just come out of my mouth that really weren't intended to be funny but somehow someone always laughs. In my spare time, I try to do all the things listed above and then some. Not much of it is all that much fun alone, so I would like a partner who enjoys these sorts of things. I am not looking for a part time partner, I would like someone who enjoys spending time together, doing whatever, and just enjoying life and each other. Building a friendship, relationship, companionship, based on honesty trust, loyalty, understanding, consideration, courtesy, communication and respect for one another is what its all about. I just never knew it would be this hard to find. Everyone these days seems to be about me me me. I have been told I look like a bad boy,,, this may or may not be true. But don't expect for me to act like one. I am very caring and sensitive, with a good heart. But don't mistake kindness for weakness. I am too tired and to old to be dealing with any BS. I may take it for a short time, as I may try to understand where someone is coming from but If I feel something isn't right, I will call you on it and if nothing changes, its time for me to go.
My ideal partner is one who is in competition with me as to whom is making the other happier. I have always said I am not here to go on 500 dates with 500 women. I want 500 dates with one women... Ironically, it hasn't worked out that way, these people just seem to either be playing, or serial dating or not look like there pics or what have you... I am as real as it gets. we all have our faults or insecurities. If you spot something that bothers you about me, lets talk about it. don't just assume whatever. Ask me how when where why what. I may not know of something I did or didn't do. Some changes may need to be made. If someone doesn't put in the effort, in all aspects, as I am... then it will probably just fall apart. BUT what it comes down to... I need someone who communicates... the good and the bad. I don't fall easily but if and when I do, you'll know it. I can only be romantic with a chosen few, which usually means Im on my way. So if you feel like #1 and you are making me #1 maybe we will never have to be on here again.

If I add you to my favs and don't respond.. It only means i didn't have the time at the moment. the first date really isn't a date its a meeting see if there is chemistry and compatability. So coffee or a drink is safe.. If we go out again then we can do dinner etc. AND I really have to ask... I see all these profiles that say "looking for a normal guy." Does anyone care to elaborate on what is A NORMAL GUY? I'm looking for someone who lifts me up and brings me close not push me down or away I want someone who enjoys spending time together building, not destroying. someone who doesn't think time together is a burden