i am a friendly person but dont get it wrong i do not take "crap" lightly. i am at a point in my life where i want positive people and enerty around me. if you dont have that then i dont wanna deal with you. my life is drama and stres free so anything of anybody that i feel may interrupt that i simply cut loose. life is too short to have crazy stuff going on. i am a mother and i enjoy being a mom. i have a strong personality but i know when to be flexible and when in a relationship; to let a man take his place. i am a political science major, i am currently working in my field some what...working in criminal justice but they kinda cross paths. i love all kinds of music...my son rocks out with me, lol. i never know what so say on these things, but if you like what you have read so far then you know what to do...

i am a home body but i like to have fun. so my first date would be somewhere calm like a jazz club or a dinner that he has planned and came up with all on his own. its the effort and thought that counts! then maybe bowling or a movie to change the tone and open up to each other,talk more and laugh.