I am so ready to find the man I'm meant to be with!

I am a deeply caring and sensitive woman with a very open heart -- I have a lot of love to give to the right person. I am looking for someone who is also sensitive and who is trustworthy and at least somewhat protective in nature. While I earn a good living, I still LOVE the feeling of being taken care of and watched out for, which has little to do with money, if you know what I mean. I know that the deepest happiness for me in life comes when I am in an intimate, caring relationship. I want to give and receive love in a warm, embracive relationship. I want to find the man who wants to be with me as much I want to be with him.

I'm a pretty grounded person -- sensible, competent and "smart", yet at the same time quite romantic and aspiring, sensual, emotionally available, giving, flexible and fun to be with. I love to try out new recipes, share exciting feasts from unusual menus, take walks, see movies, sit on the beach, explore, talk, sing in the car, be close, and laugh. I am health-conscious and and take care of myself; pix are current.

About my relationship status: My ex and I separated 6 years ago and have "moved on" completely. We are both ready to complete the divorce whenever one of us wants to, but haven't yet so that I can stay on his health insurance and he can keep living in the house I used to share with him.

I've got two terrific grown kids, love my work, have traveled a little and read a lot. I'm ready for some excitement -- bring it on!

I'm looking for a man who is self-aware, curious about people and life, grounded, strong and pretty darn confident. I'm particularly drawn to men with a sense of humor and irony who can be funny but also serious, who communicate well but also listen well, and who know what they want and go after it. Chemistry is a must; beyond that, communication, consideration and ability to commit and give emotionally are the most important things, along with truly enjoying and desiring each other's company.

I am looking for someone who can take charge but still likes my input, who can enjoy my intelligence but will also cherish my vulnerabilities and femininity!

Let me know if you found yourself saying, "Hmmmm...." and smiling as you read this!

Our first date would be somewhere we can relax and hear each other. We are both being real and letting each other see who we are. We can both joke and be serious as we feel each other's energy and enjoy each other's minds and presence. We might have a glass of wine, a couple small plates or something to enjoy together, and we are happy to have met each other, regardless of whether we think it will really work out long term.