So, in reading about what all the girls out there want, got me thinking. What is your definition of "Chemistry"? Is Chemistry all about physical, or intellectual, or what?? Thanks. :) UPDATE: One lady filled me in with her position on this and it was great. I look forward to hearing more if you'd like to share your viewpoint.

Oh, and a pet peeve of mine: please try to speak English. I mean, there is plenty of space here so I know you don't have to constrain your message to a text message. And, articulate and definite language is such a turn on to me. Doesn't anyone else feel that way?!?! And, first impressions do matter, so if yours is ghetto English I probably won't respond and then we'll never find out if we have Chemistry. Lastly, to the few of you who have sent me explicit photos before I even got a chance to talk to you or ask for them - WHAT are you thinking?!? Stop!

This all depends but I am a fan of getting to know someone first and then going from there. So anything that will allow us to talk with each other. Maybe a coffee or casual dining somewhere.