Two big things I'm looking for are emotional maturity and stability in a partner. Sexual compatibility is also important.. I generally go for men who are fit, taller than me, and sexually with a lot of "top" energy :-) While I have dated over the years I have never settled down with someone and a move in that direction would be great. I have had a lot of opportunities to explore things as an individual, free to do what I want, and would like to try exploring a "we" rather than "me." I work as a writer, am very social, and truly easy going.

I'd rather keep this open since what I would like on a first date would depend on the person I meet and the chemistry between us. I would prefer keeping it open, seeing what develops between us when we meet in terms of what we talk about, what we do ... rather than set an agenda ahead of time.