Hi, my name is Jay, I’m 33, and I work in I.T. I have rambunctious 5 year old boy who very much models me. Most of my spare time is spent with my son, but when I do get some free time I enjoy fishing, football, my elliptical (GREAT STRESS RELIEVER), and sharing some good times with family and friends. My musical tastes varies greatly, so it’s easier to say what I don’t like, and that’s country (all of the time) and rap (most of the time).

I’m looking for a woman with whom I can click with. Someone that gets me, which is weird because I’m not that complicated. Overall, I'm looking for someone who I can't stop thinking about.

Something fun. I'm a spontaneous person so it may not be going to just one place. I would say start off with lunch. Then if that goes well, head out for an afternoon of fun activities.