What a great bday - went to visit my mom, ended up having pizza and watching a couple of movies.. Maybe next yr will be a little more exciting.. :)

I don't know about a lot of women on here, but I really want a man to love, and love me back.. IS that really too hard to find? One that is attractive to me and thinks Im attractive looking too... wow must be.. (BIG HUGE SIGH) I love attention and if the chemistry is there between me and someone I give it all right back and more.

Don't let that first paragraph put u off from the start.. I know finding that man takes time, and you have to start at friends/dating to end up there eventually.. What I am trying to do is weed out men that just are looking for a hook up for sex. I LOVE sex probably more than most women, but not looking for a hook up.. I would like something more than that. :)

My youngest is ready to leave the house soon, and it will be time for ME for a change.. I wish to find a loving passionate man to spend time with.. have fun.. go on adventures with traveling to far away lands.. just be happy..

I am a lot different than most women that you men know or have known in the past. I actually am NOT a B w an itch! I am warm, loving, sensual, funny, nurturing.

I don't mind it if u come up behind me and grab my butt while I am cooking or doing the dishes... or laundry.. Just don't start something u can't finish!

This is important to me - If you are racist then don't waste my time by sending me any notes, I was married to a black man and do have a mixed daughter. I don't look at a mans skin color or nationality...but on the man himself..

As far as age goes, I normally date men younger than myself.. I again take it per the man himself, not the age.

I also love Michael Jackson so if you did'nt KNOW and UNDERSTAND him as a warm/loving/caring/childlike/pure/ and truely believe he was a sick child mollester/perv... then again pass me by.. We would NOT get along.

I love most kinds of music except for OLD COUNTRY like on HEE HAW

I won't be able to check this site often anymore, I have had to give up my cell phone/internet/sat tv/ and a few other things after tonight because of strained financial matters.. If I don't get back to you - please don't get all mad.. It may take a few days to get acess to being online. I do and always will answer every letter I get..

Also,if I reply back that you are not my type, or I see no attraction there... then please just go on and find someone else to write to.. I don't want to have to explain WHY I don't find you attractive or for me.. I don't need the drama... I get it myself from some men I like... Im not their cup of tea.. ok? no one likes it but it is part of life... not everyone is going to like everyone.. plain and simple.. GET OVER IT... move on.

Thanks Tami

Depends on each person, everyone is a little different. I don't just run out and meet someone in person w/ one or two notes back and forth. I would like to talk to u on web cam and go from there. Sometimes it is not just the face/body but the voice plays a huge part too in attraction.

Drinks/dinner is always a nice start and let nature take its course. We will just take it as it comes.