37 yr. old classical musician (bassoonist/singer) and all-around fun, cheerful guy looking to connect with other "real" men 25-50 (negotiable) for friendship, hanging out (eating, drinking, movies, concerts, parks, nature, exploring the city, etc.) and general companionship. I'm looking to make friends, explore my new borough of Brooklyn, and find romance and sexiness along the way.
I'm a man who has had long-term relationships, and knows exactly what he wants and needs - and you should have a pretty good idea of that for yourself too. I need a man in touch with himself, completely out of the closet and over himself, and ready, if the chemistry is there, to explore something long-term. I just want to make great friends first though, and see where it goes. ;)

I'm not looking for quick hook-ups, and certainly not one-nighters or the like. Been there, done all that. Not opposed to sexual friendships though, but they need to start out as friendships that might possibly become sexual. In my experience, sex first and friends later rarely works, as much as I've tried to make friends out of sex buddies. That being said, get to know me (I'm fun!), and if there is good chemistry between us, then we can certainly explore things...

So come on you handsome, boyish, guys....chasers, husky, chubs, etc. all good - look me up! I like guys only just a little bigger/huskier than myself (but taller is fine) and especially smaller, shorter, stocky guys too - even petite! I recently learned the joys of being with a significantly smaller guy. :) Big plus if you're a musician or other artistic-type! (or those that love them!)

- Ron

STANDARD DISCLAIMER -
PLEASE: Only interested in chatting with/meeting REAL guys who actually want to meet in REAL-LIFE; not into cybersex, endless online chat/emailing, un-returned voicemails, or other silly high school games. I have no time in my life for that crap, or being constantly led-on. I mean, why do that? It's not fair or fun for me, and I won't do it to anyone else, either. Please be sincere if you desire to meet me!

THANKS for reading through all this! I sincerely hope to hear from you - please don't be shy, say hello! I'm usually very warm & friendly! :)

Duh - Act like a gentleman and try to learn as much as possible about my guest, while being respectful, courteous, and charming. :) Dinner, long romantic walks, maybe a boatride, a nice desert, a.k.a. simple pleasures. :)