On a first date you get to know the likes and dislikes of a person. You talk about goals and asperations. You talk about the future. You decide if one is compatiable. I think that people who limit themselves to a stringent criteria think wrong.
First Date
hmmm sounds desperate .... Ask for a date if it feels right. I feel that the key is good comunication at first then you take it from there. One must walk before one runs period.