So i've been on this site for a while now and read a good bit of profiles. What I noticed mostly is that no one really states their defects and almost always is on here "looking" for that someone special. I think it is a better idea to give you what i'm not looking for, and by telling you my downfalls... well I just think that is the best way to get to the "go" or "no go" list. Plus don't you think it would be more interesting to find out what my "favorites" are and how to surprise me on your own???.
-I'm some what of a neat freak, mainly when it comes to folding my clothes though.
-The only thing i'm not late for is work, no matter how much i care about you i'll eventually be late, and it's not usually 5 or 10mins, I mean i'm late. Only because my thoughts are "well i'm already late I might as well make sure everything is good to go while i'm at it".
-When i'm comfortable I get lazy, I mean in situations and with people.. If you let me know I can get away with breaking the rules, I will. Sometimes you'll have to crack the whip, if you know what i'm saying.
-I sometimes drop a casual N bomb every now and then. I'm not racist or prejudice, it doesn't even mean what it did 40 or 50 years ago, it's 2009 get over it.. To me it's like calling someone you don't know a b*tch, you're just saying it because you don't know them personally, not to offend 'em
-A lot of people tell me this so it must be true... I like to be the center of attention. I am LOUD, that's and understatement. I like to cause a scene every now and then, some people would say i'm embarrasing in public. But you know what that's me, now i'm not saying i'm a rude prick, I only do it to the people I like.
-Most places I go, I stick out. That's mainly because i'm ME, i'm goofy, true, and damnit if i am loud.. my personality is loud, the sore thumb in the crowd, not like yelling or shouting!!
I think that's the most of it, now onto my list of no go's
-If you often settle for less...
-If you are a faddish person...
-If you every act fake to please someone...
-If you are a "material girl"...
-If you can't say "F*ck it" and go with the flow...
-If you don't want kids...
-If you are pessamistic...
... then don't bother sending me a message:).. haha.!!!

I think dating to meet people is the wrong approach. When I want to know more about some one or meet/get to know them, you should start with a friendship first.. then if the vibe is there, a kiss and all that good stuff will probally be on the way.. With that said... the first meeting would, be my decision ofcourse because i'm the guy here, be after several emails and i have figured out that you're not really some guy in his basement wearing lipstick and pantyhose... I guess the point I want to get across is that i want to have some idea of the person im going to meet.. and with that bit of info i would taylor the date with, so you can't really have a general first date.. if you do then you're probally a lame ass..