I am an Chinese(Cantonese)born Canadian that has lived in Vancouver all of my life. I was born allergic to proteins but did not discover this until later on in life. This revelation sent shockwaves thru my body and it has hampered my educational background. Aside from the allergy, I have mild cerebral palsy which intensify with the foods that I intake. I tried to enroll in the UBC School of Architecture but they felt that I couldn't handle the load. Through it all, I knew that I could design and have been doing so to keep my mind busy and occupied. I wish to meet a similar person that knows a few things about design and other things. My allergy to foods has made me a house bound person and I am in need of an special caring person that understand my handicap and is willing to adapt her lifestyle to suit mine.....sort of. You won't have to give up your foods just because I can't eat them.

The photos are of me working on my sundeck enclosure which is finished now. A photo of an interior project that I did years ago. I'm currently working on a greenhouse sundeck combination. I have numerous ideas lined up to improve the livability of my house. I'll update the greenhouse while it's in progress ...check back from time to time.


I am seeking one person who will be my best friend, soul mate, partner, companion, confidant, lover and perhaps even a life partner provided our mutual pursuit and sense of gratification is one of the same.

I believe the key pillars of a successful relationship are honesty, communication, fidelity, commitment and having the same end in mind. I’m also endearing, loving, romantic and behind the serious exterior, I assure you, there lies a fun loving gentleman with a fairly good sense of humour. I love the little touches that mean so much and believe in equality in all areas. Thus I’ve no qualms about doing chores, errands, taking out the rubbish, changing diapers, cleaning up and cooking.

If you think this journey sounds interesting enough, let’s explore the possibilities that lie ahead. I look forward to hearing from you.

You have coffee....I'll have milk or I can cook up a veggie/hearty dinner to your liking.