You can’t make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the person to realize your worth. So if you are married, have very small children, hear voices talking to you, need Viagra for any type of exertion, like to play games as if we were still in High School, looking for someone to support you, are on drugs or are alcoholics, have more pictures of your pets up than yourself, then PLEASE PLEASE pass me by as fast as you can. Why waste each other's time? Love the beaches and islands!! Last year went on a cruise to the Caribbean with my whole family. Then met a friend in Costa Rica. They had the most beautiful beaches I have ever seen. SOOOOOO relaxing! All good things come to those who wait! I strongly believe that. I love to laugh. Life is just sometimes too serious. You need to take the edge off and laughter is the best medicine. I am a very fun loving person with a big heart. I am a very devoted woman with that special man. Trust is very important to me. Without trust in a relationship, there is nothing. Honesty is also very important to me. I am tired of the lies and the old pictures. I actually had one man who brought a snorkel to our date because he wanted me to see that this was part of his job working as an underwater diver at the O show. OMG! Also had one man who told me on our 2nd date that the voices in his head told him to ask me out again! Are any of you normal men out there?? Do you see why I need a sense of humor? The voices in MY head told me to try online dating again.

My idea for a first date would either be a nice dinner at a quiet restaurant, or a night out at a comedy club, or just meet for a few drinks to see if the attraction is there. The possibilities are endless. As long as you pick a place where you can talk and have fun and basically get to know each other. And then have the feeling that you can't wait to see this person again. That is what it is all about!