im jacob and i have a 6 year old son who lives with me full time. his name is Cayden and i love him very dearly. i am not looking for a mother for him cause to be honest im thankful his own mother isn't around. we do just fine on that stand point. i am very loving and make sure he has all he needs. we have our own house in murray and i would like to find someone who lives close. i get out when i can but do not make it a point to do so. i am the type of guy that would rather have 1 good friend than 50 fake ones. that is what i am looking for in a woman, is a friend. i see my grandparents who have been married over 50 years and the one thing that stands out more than any is that they are best friends. now i am not looking to get married, not any time soon anyways, i did that way too young and won't rush it. i try not to be judging cause everyone has faults. i believe beauty comes in many shapes, sizes, curves, bends, moles, hair, smile, eyes, walk, confidence. i hate being pinned into a mold of the A-Typical man because i am not that mold nor that man. i am my own person with my own issues and my own way of doing things. i don't want a Barbie that looks and acts and talks and walks and smells and eats and is just like all the other Barbies. that is boring!!!! i want a person who thinks for themselves, knows what they want, comfortable with themselves, isn't so stuck up there own asses they can't see in front of their nose. i want a person who is content, that don't need every little material thing to make them happy. i have love to give and space for it to be received. i try to be as honest as i can without being a butt head, all i can do is ask for the same.

i don't know maybe cook a dinner and sit out on the back porch with a good fire going and just sit and talk. if life is kept simple it is harder to miss what truly matters most.