Here’s the run down- I live with my 7-year-old son Gabe and our dog inkeude, or inky for short (Inky is named after the hero of Sumerian legend-ravisher of women and destroyer of monsters…it’s really a misnomer, like a fat guy named tiny, she’s a very small dog.) I exercise a lot, (gymnastics, skateboarding and jogging) it’s kind of like medication, mellows me out. I take it easy on my weekends-play some pool, cook tri-tip. My boy is a ravenous carnivore and would probably take a bite out of me if I didn’t cook him tri tip at least once a week. I recently graduated from UCSB with a psych degree and I continue to study psychology and related fields and oh yea, I work 40h/week.

I would like to meet a girl who has kid(s); Likes doing stuff outside (baseball, hiking, something…) and likes to flirt and joke around. I hope to meet someone who can be mentally stimulating from time to time and doesn’t
mind having a serious conversation once in-a-while. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not a stiff.

Rando stuff about me: I prefer strawberry jam over grape. Sometimes I tell waiters to hold a table for Fred Flintstone...or something equally ridiculous. I prefer the glow of a bonfire over that of a television.I hope to learn a new language sometime soon, and maybe take a class on swing dancing. Sometimes I like to do bad things like jump off of a peer and swim to shore, or sneak a beer into the theater.

Things I like: Holidays(carving pumpkins, looking at Christmas lights…); the sound of the rain on my window; how a warm fire feels after you come in from the cold; the afterglow to a long run; the taste of a Guinness on my Friday. I like to starve my senses and go without for a-while-keeps me hungry. “Pleasure is nothing without pain to measure it against.”

I like all kinds of music: Johnny Cash, Beethoven, Black Flag, Metalica, Led Zeppelin, The Beatles, Garth Brooks,Grateful Dead, Dilated Peoples, Foo Fighters, Social Distortion, Sublime...

What’s there to talk about?

I'm sure I’ll think of something.