Wow. .. How did that happen? I woke up recently and i am 43! That is not a bad thing though. I read recently that 40 is the new 30. .i agree with that.

my life is just begininng to be really fun. .. And i would love to share the journey with someone special. I moved here from virginia beach, where i had lived for the previous 2 years. Prior to that, i lived in san diego, ca for 15 years. I was raised to be a southern gentleman in al and tn. I have been fortunate enough to have visited a large portion of central america, parts of south america and several countries along the pacific rim. I still have a lot of places i wish to explore (australia, europe. .. Anyone? ?? ) southern california was an excellent place to find my true eclectic self.

my build is stocky/heavyset. .. I usually get the teddy bear comparision. You know the story. .. Played football "back in the day" and 13 years of marriage put some padding around the middle. There is still a very solid core here, just need to get the spare tire gone ! !! I am still relatively active in playing softball, hiking and walking. .. Just someone please close the burger king drive-thru when you see me coming ! !! The sad part about that is that i love to cook and i am very good at it (i am told. .. Does mac & cheese count? Just kidding! )

i am a music fanatic. If you took a peek at the 8000+ songs on my iPod you would find ac/dc, nina simone, T-Pain, john hiatt, bob dylan, alabama, alicia keys, hall & oates, jimmy lafave (thanks gaye! !) david gray, van morrison, jill scott, macy gray, ella fitzgerald, living colour, guns & roses, Kenny Chesney and almost anything in between. ..

i also love movies and reading books. .as usual, i have 2 going right now.

the person i am looking for is spontaneous, passionate, sensual, funny, intelligent, goofy, serious. .. And available. ..

this special person must not have any issues with receiving flowers because i happen to be thinking of you today. .. Could it be you?