Is romance dead?

What ever happened to talking on a phone for hours to your girl just because you could? No particular subject, just wanting to hear the sound of your voice. If you cannot handle someone that teases a little, only in fun, Loves a lot, or wants too...and wants to hear from you every day...not just when you happen to make time for me after your girl friends or guy friends...move on.

I want someone real...someone that will give more than is asked or needed...love unconditional is a hard accomplishment...but if you don't work at love what are you working towards?

Why is romance rushed? If it is meant to be, the mountains cannot seperate it...and if it is not even the universe cannot contain it.

I would like to take some time and just get to know each other...slowly...there is less pressure...I am in no hurry...you shouldn't be either...we'll know when the time is right...and if you rush it...I might not be able to soak in the moment as clearly as I desire too.

I know I have been out of the scene for 10 years, so play nice...I am old fashion and want to take time to get to know you.

Be yourself. If your quiet or shy that is fine...just let me stand near you...and if your loud and outspoken that is fine too...I'll be there to bail you out...ha.

Don't tell me what you think I want to hear...I am with you to hear YOU!! To hear your thoughts on life...Talk to me...tell me what you think about...enjoy your life with me...lead me through your dreams...we will be living mine?

Do others read the chemistry and relationship tests we take on here?

Relationship = mutually agreeing to relate to one another on more than just one level.

Would love someone that wants to build a life together...or incorporate me into theirs.

Children are a must...since I have two...they live 500 miles away right now...so they are a part of my daily life...I call them once a day...period. See them once a month. I am pretty sure I want more children...just with some one that wants to love me and not run off and sleep with other people...does that sound bitter? lol


I am a simple enough man... I am finishing my B.S. in Computer Science...coffee shops with bookstores...Rancho Cucamonga only has one that I have found, next to a bestbuy...so I go there a lot during the week...people watching is a particpants' sport...;)I am incredibly shy...trying to meet someone tends to be difficult...

I have certain quirks...like not being into tattoos...just not my thing...piercings are okay...but I tend to think natural beauty wins over artificial attention grabbing...if this is not you move on...I know who I am and what I want...and if we can't blend...why are we wasting each others time?

I am open to most new ideas of how to grow a life together...would like to find someone that is semi serious with their searching on here...guess that's it for now...thanks for reading into my deep dark seedy life...;)

First date really depends on our previous interactions email or phone...by then I hope that we have spent enough time communicating with one another that I could hold your hand in mine...so that we might have a chance to deepen our connection through playful yet focused effort toward a dream of knowing each other better...

If your shy that's okay I am too, I have not been in the dating scene for ten years so this is newer to me than it probably is to you...just keep in mind I want a woman that will take things slow...Raymie

If you have made it this far in reading my profile, congrats...that shows you have stamina and your going to need it...I want to see the world or at least the one in your eyes...enjoying day to day life while dreaming of a little world we will make our own, together.