"When you feel like giving up, remember why you held on for so long in the first place."

The world holds two classes of men -- intelligent men without religion, and religious men without intelligence.

A sword wields no strength unless the hand that holds it has courage.

Now before you go on reading this just know there is a lot there to read, yet it is only the tip of the ice burg. that is because there is more to me than most guys out there. I find there is more to life than just working out, money, party and sex. I am very well educated and look at both sides of things and take everything in before i judge. My eyes are wide open and see what is true, my ears hear all and listen to everything, and my heart knows what is right. To me this makes me better than most people out there, and to those out there who read this can go ahead and call me egotistical or call it whatever you want. I am not perfect and know i am wrong at times and can admit that with no problem and learn from it. Part of life is living and learning from your mistakes. To me it is knowing what is true and living by that, rather than trying to live by what is not true. What is important about this is that i am at peace, and found true meaning of life. and please do not bother asking me the meaning of life because i can not give that to you, you can only do that for your self.

Anyway, to those who have made it this far my name is Benjamin. I wish i could say that this site is great...but it seems i just come across girls who are either superficial, rude, inconsiderate or just straight up snobby. Most of them are the ones that are really pretty to, it is sad when you comment on someone and you do not even get a thank you.

So i bet you are wondering why i am on here....well a small part of it is boredom. But i also do not like giving up, and you just never know...something may just come along

I am a sweet nice guy with a good heart. I am a Friend to many,a Uncle to 11, a Brother to 12, and a Godfather to 1 and hope to be a Husband and Father sometime in the future too. These are the only kind of Labels i like...other wise i am just me. I do the same thing everyone else does and more. I enjoy just about everything life has to offer, and do my best not to take what i have been given for granted. I am not perfect, but it is a work in progress every day. i am always trying to make my self a better man, (kind of a life long goal)

As for music...Well for one i am a musician. Playing the piano for 14 years now. other wise i like a lot, and what i do not like i will listen to so i can at least say why i do not like. My philosophy is "if you are not going to like something, you better have tried it and know about it"

I have a place with my best friend of 22 years, his wife and three kids. We depend on each other and have a great thing going. There kids are like my nephews and i call them Family. Last but not least my dog, he means so much to me so if you do not like dogs then we do not match.

Now when i say "just about everything" iwith my interests i mean. Summer time is all about out side. BBQ's lakes, Disc Golf (going on 12 years of disc golfing for me) parties, warm summer nights just looking at the stars. and winter is nice o be outside if i am snowboarding, other wise i like the inside with movies, games and what not.

So there you have it, that is a little of me. I am very educated, wise and live by great morals. If that is not good enough than it is obvious that you are a superficial stuck up ****.

Something simple. Go out for coffee or to a park, somewhere during the day and a place were we can just talk and get to know each other.