All right, folks, here's the dealio:

My original account name was ALV. I had joined to help a girlfriend find somebody, and then I discovered the forums and enjoyed reading 'em (well, sometimes. *ahem*).

Deleted my account soon after (not-so-coincidentally once school was out for the summer), and recreated *this* account a few days ago (also not-so-coincidentally once exams started up). What can I say; I find the male vs. female brain and behaviour very fascinating.

I'm happily committed to my boyfriend and wouldn't ever consider meeting somebody new. So when I say I'm "just here for the forums", please take that to be the absolute truth. Really!

Happy fishing :)
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Addendum:

A few thoughts:

I have always found it disheartening to see how selfish people are. Before I go on, I'll admit that yes, I am selfish too at times, and yes, being selfish sometimes is a good thing depending on the context. However, what really bothers me is the lack of consideration, sensitivity, and empathy for others.

Really, what does it take to hold the door open for someone? No, not just that girl you find cute, and no, not just that guy in a wheelchair.

And what does it take to smile at those who pass you in the hall or on the street? Or to say good morning, good afternoon, and goodnight to the people at the front desk, or to the people who wash the floors and scrub the toilets at all hours.

No, don't leave your apple cores on the ground. Yes, you pay tuition, but that doesn't give you the right to be a jackass slob.

You are in the driver's seat the majority of the time. Next time you complain about how much life sucks, think about what you can do to change that.

Pay attention to people and pay them genuine compliments when you see fit; it takes nothing from your end, and you'll have made their days.

When you see somebody is going through a tough time, realize that sometimes all one wants is to know that somebody has noticed and is willing to be whatever is needed of him/her. Asking a million and one questions can be more damaging than making a simple comment of acknowledgement, accompanied by a heartfelt hug.

Be patient with kids when they make mistakes out of good intentions. It sucks that you now have a huge mess to clean in the kitchen, but seeing your daughter work tirelessly to make you blueberry pancakes shows that she loves you enough to want to make you proud. Work as a team to clean up, and turn it into a game or competition.

Always notice what your loved ones like or need. Keep a list and add to it whenever you can for future gift-giving occasions. Watching your friend's eyes light up in amazement and amusement at seeing that giant box of Five Alive tetrapacks you left in his locker will be a priceless moment for the both of you and will leave him feeling touched that you notice his daily habits. And another thing, don't wait for a calendar occasion to give somebody a gift. The best gifts are unexpected.

Don't yell at your dog because he's behaving the way you've taught him to behave. If you didn't punish him the first time, how is he to know each consecutive time that he's doing something bad? As far as I know, we humans are the only species capable of higher thought. And even if dogs are capable of this, I doubt their brains work in the exact same way ours do. Thus, speak their language to train them. *Cough* Operant and classical conditioning...

Always offer somebody your coat when s/he's cold, no matter what this person's relation is to you.

Asking somebody how s/he's doing is so much nicer when you actually want to know. Saying so for the sake of formality or social norms is just plain boring. And transparent. Don't be a robot; Think about the meanings behind the words you say.

Keep in mind that some people are too proud to say "I'm sorry", but will show it through their actions. Do not consider this form of apologizing to be of any lesser value than the verbal form, as speaking is only one way to get your thoughts across, and you are in no position to judge which way is more sincere.

Volunteer at a retirement home. These are people who sometimes don't have any family left. Imagine how it would feel to be them, and then imagine the possibility of it being you in 20, 30, 40, 50 years time. Think of it as a symbiotic, rather than parasitic, relationship; You will both gain from doing this, as I promise that you'll be amazed at how delightful it is to listen to the elderly's stories. Their memories are facts laced with emotion, which, in my opinion, makes for a perfect story.

And as the holidays near us: Christmas is about family and friends. Not Hot Wheels and Sony.

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There's too much to say and just not enough room. But I'll stop here- this isn't a blog, after all. ;)

Have a good day!

Simply brilliant: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K6msKrqmN3w&feature=player_embedded