You did not like that pic... ? ...

We all wish a comfortable vacation in a nice setting ... But what is truly important ? ... Some say "Location, location, location..." ... But I suggest instead being with "the One","the One" ... "The One"... "Cherchez l'Homme" ... ( A twist to the well known saying the opposite)... What if you were there with that Mr RIGHT ... The "One" ... Actually I stayed in that shack for 2 full weeks :) ... The location was RIGHT: just 4 minutes away from the "Mercado 23" in Cancun DownTown, and to the bus terminal to take the bus to Playa Del Carmen, Riviera Maya , and other Mayan Archeological sites ... Of course the beaches too ... :)

Let me tell you this : I have been in places like that nice beach front property... But at times, I was alone, and felt miserable not being able to share it with "the one"... At other times, I was there with the worst relationships I ever had in my whole life... A disaster...

I am not a preacher ! ... I am not a salesman, just a creature like the rest of you : wondering what is the secret of happiness ? ... Whom and what to look for ? ... As we mature, we realize better through our multiple failures that it is not easy to find our "other half"... It is difficult enough to understand one-self, so it is even more so understanding some one else, who we allow into our life... Someone who complements us and yet thinks so DIFFERENT, as he is of a different sex...

My experience suggests that if you can enjoy the company of a man while staying in a shack (like the one shown above) then this is YOUR Man ! ... lol... ... I am posting these pictures, as an illustration of my numerous paradoxes…

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I Have a DREAM !... That is my Banner ... and it says it all…
Yes a good dream... After having had several nightmares ... lol... Just kidding, but... There is always a tiny truth in our jokes :) I am about to live it ...

Seriously... My dream is not so new... It is a repetitive dream ... It is in fact a PROJECT ...

Yes ... The SAME project, that I keep adjusting and perfecting over and over and over..., to my evolving situation...

It is about finding the "One" who would become my life partner, to share and enjoy the simple things in life somewhere in the "South" ... Where the sun shines, and the water is turquoise ... :)... Somewhere "Où il fait bon de vivre" ... Growing older together in harmony, having fought hard all those years, after many victories and defeats all of which helped us grow taller first with assurance, and then with humility...

It took me a while to understand that this is what I am looking for, after I had a VISION and a REVELATION…

What makes me "unique" is the wide dynamic range of my interests in life... I am a passionate man : intense..., I am also a charming man, romantic, and very sensual... I may have similarities with Al Pacino , and Vasco Rossi ... Those movie addicts know the first one for sure, and those Italian music lovers may recognize the second (He is a sophisticated Bum)... I have many qualities, but also as many "defects" as they are the extremities of those qualities...

So you may say that I am a "real man" looking for a "real woman" ...

Because I have mixed cultures (and different sets of values of opposite poles), I have a complex and deep personality, but not complicated... Just a "rich" and thick fabric... Having good communications skills and thanks to my cartesian mind, I keep it simple ... For, I am a living paradox... Capitalist in ways, yet Socialist in other ways when it comes to social justice, defending the weak... I am a refined man, yet at times I feel and act like a bum... Wishing to be a "beach bum" ... :) I may be a macho man, and yet I have that "female side" inside me... That entices me to talk about feelings,and relationships... instead of cars and hockey games... I am reasonably confident that I am a well balanced macho as I went out for almost two years with a staunch feminist… lol… I am perceived as being blunt, and yet I can be most diplomatic without ever Lying…

I can be serious, yet there is this little child inside me who incites me to do some crazy things sometimes, I like to laugh as it keeps the doctor and the "shrink" away... If you are gifted enough to have that "little girl" inside you,then we may have a LOT of fun together… I am conventional in many ways, and yet I am a rebel in other ways ... Sometimes even without a real cause ... lol ...

A woman never gets bored with me , at worse she may get a bit dizzy ... lol ... But she seldom remains confused about me, because I am there to explain what makes me re-adjust my approaches. You will rarely meet someone who is more articulate than me !... Trust me about that !

I am here to find the "ONE" ... I see her as being very feminine, authentic, with the intelligence of the heart, well educated, sexy, young inside out, generous, loyal, and positive... Having family and human VALUES needless to say is a MUST in addition to ... Some one who likes to discover new things, who is serious and yet does not takes herself too seriously...

Am I asking too much ?... You may think so and find me arrogant... However, let me assure you that I do offer all of these attributes that I am looking for...

I enjoy electronic products related to movies and music using computers, and reading financial & social news around the world using the internet, traveling to Hispanic countries... I am at the leading edge of technology, I cherish creativity and innovations in many fields...

I like all kind of music ... Just too long to list here, in five different languages / cultures.... In a "previous life" on this POF site my former nick was caruso2323, my previous description was quite elaborate, so I decided this time to cut it short... It is different, as I have mobilized most of my resources to win a battle, as I am at a turning point while looking for romance...
In a previous life I might have been a Wolf who got re-incarnated into a Man ... So I am looking for my Wofine !... :)
You may be able to double-guess me by listening to a couple of French songs : "Que Je t'aime" (Johny Haliday, and " Je vais t'aimer" (Michel Sardou) ... You will then feel this intensity…

And there is one more thing about me : I am NOT 57 years old ... In actual fact, I am 62 years old ... I have distorted that information in order to give the opportunity to those ladies looking for men between forty-five and fifty-seven years (thinking that there is no sex potential in post 60... To be aware that there are exceptions !... and that they better shape up ... lol...

Have a coffee somewhere quiet to exchange then go for a walk ... and why not a kiss in case the chemistry is at work in both directions...