My life is on chill out mode right now. I'm usually a go-go-go person, but I'm taking a break. Living in the present and just rolling with the punches type of thing. Hobbies are chatting with people, laughing, and having fun. I really love to renovate houses. I could do that all day long. All goals and aspirations are on hiatus right now. Basically, I'm a smart ass with a quick sense of humor.

On the flipside - no one night stands, no random sex, no "not looking for a relationship" guys, no "I just want to talk about my ex" guys. Ugh. I just want to meet and see if we have any chemistry. Then maybe date. Then eventually maybe get married and have some kids. I'm just trying to save us all some trouble by laying this stuff out. Ideally, a guy within 5 years of my age range would be good. I'm not into older guys. Specifically - "older" means you're potentially old enough to be mistaken for my Dad/Grandpa...

YOU: Be intelligent, funny, and a decent person. Hate to point it out, but looks matter. If you don't want to see yourself in the mirror... well. It is what it is. Brains are sexy, so if you know you're smart, that's a big turn on. Brains don't come from being over-educated. You either have them or you don't!

TO SUM IT UP... I won't message you first, so if you like what you see, say hi.

On a first date, I would have fun with the person. Just chatting and enjoying a drink or a meal. It's not about what we do. It's about finding a connection.