I live in the moment because there's nowhere else to live. I am weary of dishonest, self-absorbed men. I have a lot to offer the right person who can genuinely communicate his feelings, who has the ability to be empathetic and truly interested in someone besides himself. I have a bit of an odd sense of humor and anyone who gets me is off to a good start. I'm competitive, can adapt to almost any situation and have a diverse group of people around me. I love all kinds of music. I watch CSI (all of them) and HGTV almost exclusively. I don't have much time for TV. I have a full and busy life. If you are someone who can add joy to my life, I'll make room for you. And I think I might add a little joy to yours as well.

On our first date, we might meet for coffee or a drink, shoot a little pool and get to know each other. If we're good so far, maybe a walk on the beach, a little more talking and maybe later, go dancing. Nothing to be nervous about.