This is my second attempt on this site because the first one was not very successful. Put it this way: I'm 6'1 and 185 lbs. If you are bigger than I am, then it can't work. No disrespect to anyone out there. Some ppl. love the big girls and that's cool, but if u r bigger or taller than me it's just uncomfortable. That's just not my preference. On that note I would like to invite any cool and interesting ppl. to shoot me message if you feel inclined to do so. Don't be timid, because I will respond tactfully regardless of anything.
Now about me.... I'm a Black/Hispanic and I'm originally from NYC. I now reside in Central Jersey where I bought a house. I like it out here for the serenity and peace of mind, but I am definitely a city guy. I'm always back and forth b/t NJ and NY, and I also travel often. I am very stable, intelligent(at least I like to think so), athletic, humorous, and well-dressed. Lol..... For now I'm just looking to meet someone cool in my general area because I did the long distance thing for over a year with someone and trust me; it was extremely difficult. I'm not going to say too much about myself because if you want to know, all you have to do is inquire.....

A first date shouldn't be premeditated because various different activities could be entertaining with different ppl. No two ppl. are the same so why should there be one idea for a first date that applies to everyone? Ya know? ;-p