I am looking for a real woman who is looking for a real man and is who and what they in fact say they are on this site. I have been told that I am nothing like my photos on here once people decide to step out of the box and chat with me or talk on the phone I get two responses from people.... 1.) Your way sweeter than you look in your photos! You look like a hardass and your actually a real and sweet genuine guy. 2.) Your pictures make you look like a straight laced guy and once they talk to me they see I am pretty easy going and not as anal retentive as they thought by being judgemental towards photos of me! SO I am not judgemental if you feel you need to judge me then go right ahead and do so by my actions and not a photo that is at least a fair shot anyway. I treat everyone the way I wish to be treated and expect that from anyone near and dear to me in my life. I guess a little about me I am going back to school for a second time now... I am pursuing my RN licensure. I will be starting classes back up in the spring of 2010 semester. I am excited about this monumental choice I have made. I am looking for career focused individuals who are open minded and like to think and act out of the box so to speak. I am easy going, fun to be around I am told, I make people smile, everyone comes to me for help or problems they may have and I am pretty open about just about anything within good taste that is! So what are you waiting for contact me I think life is too short to be sitting and wasting away alone. I am on F A C E B O O K and have Y A H O O as well my messeneger name is Jason012782 please feel free to messagge me anytime. Well if you would like to know more.. like I said I am an open book! Talk to you soon!

It all depends on the person and should be a combined effort.