I am a single mom of 2 adult children and currently have an almost 2 year old foster son. He is the light of my life. If he doesn't go back to his parents, I will adopt him. Don't respond if you can't deal with that. I believe his life and welfare are far more important then mine. I am a Christian and would like my date to be someone who attends church. I love country music, along with soft rock, 80's and club music. A good dance partner would be great! I do have a fulltime job and I don't need someone to support me. You must have a good job and not be a mental case. No drugs or smoking. I would ask that you only respond if you are 5'10" or taller. I am not into heavy men either. Sorry. Also there must be a love for cats. I did say catS. I seem to be attracted to younger men, by that I mean 35ish and over. lol NOT 21. My daughter is 21. That doesn't mean an older man wouldn't have a chance. Thank you for taking the time to read this. Good luck in your search.