I am a very well spoken, educated, cultured and extremely bright guy. I need a woman that is pretty much OK with all that entails (I never sleep, see uncommon things at common moments, have odd epiphanies about jelly beans, and can be sesquipedalian at times) ...a tad more emotional than most men and am frequently told I am "weird" by women I am involved with - but in a highly complementary way. I don't know but it seemed something to mention if you relate to it - I never understood it.

What do women say they notice first about me? My eyes, my hair and my speaking voice....and when they get to know me better, my butt comes up often...the speaking voice is a killer though...(this doesn't seem to be a place where one should feign diffidence)...so, that's me.

As for pic, went for recent over wardrobe...but I do have a tie (somewhere...well, maybe...gotta go look again...)

In the end, I am looking for my muse in life and art. Someone that both inspires me and that I can inspire. That will grow with me. We become more together than we were ever as single entities.

Some of my fav movies - Children of Paradise; 8 1/2; and Wages of Fear (and Blue, Grand Illusion, Repulsion, Zentropa, Ok, OK, I'll stop...)

Some of my fav books - All the King's Men; Godel, Escher, Bach; Winter's Tale.

5 completely random songs from my iTunes library - Sechs Kleine Praludein (Bach); Armalite Rifle - Gang of Four; Avalanche - New Order; I put a Spell on You - Nina Simone; Hand it Over - Keb' Mo.

I am a big time cook BTW - mostly enjoy cooking actual asian food (it is just so zen) but can cook most anything (not as zen but still fun).

And I am not this damn serious or dry - well, my humor is drier than a james Bond martini..and my humor is more Bill Murray and less Jim Carrey. I also minored in sarcasm in college so fair warning has been issued.

Anything from a fly-by to check chemistry to a beautiful dinner...pretty open to what is best for you.