I would one day like to share the beauty of life with a woman that is intelligent, intellectually stimulated and self-driven. I am looking for someone who has the ability to think beyond the typical constructs that humanity has shaped (she thinks outside the box). I would like to meet someone who is confident; yet, knows humility and kindness. I prefer to share time with women who are witty and full of energy. She finds herself attractive and can take a compliment. She can take care of herself and does not mind occasionally being taken care of. What you do for a living is not as important to me ~ as ~ your perception of what it is that you do. (I would love to explain what I mean in conversations)

I enjoy some fairytale romance ~ whimsical fun ~ and realistic expectations. Balance and opposition. Roller coasters ~ dinner for two or maybe a picnic on the roof of my house. I have embraced a “live in the moment” ideation of general life. I make plans for my future; however, I’ve learned to roll with the punches and I try not to make too many expectations.

As for me….

I’m 31 years young ~ simplistic in a complex world ~ some say charming ~ and charismatic at times. I can pass for a very young 31; which will be great when I’m 50, but not such a thriller when you seek a woman who has experienced the complexities of life and matured appropriately. Haa! I am the guy with the generally sober demeanor that saves a silly playful interior for the select few with whom I am closest. I graduated college and saw myself military bound in the early 2000’s. I was an excellent soldier for a period of time and the war changed my goals after some time in Iraq. I believe I am fairly intelligent, poetic in script, creative, versatile, adaptable, lighthearted, easy to talk to, caring, gentle, balanced, fair, intuitive and kind, an embodiment of subtle contradictions. I was conceived and brought into this world with a unique kind of insight that I would love to share with you one day. As well as a peaceful quality (so I am told).

Some random interests and facts:

Spiritual exploration, fitness training, massage, weight training, cycling, poetry, planning a book, tattoo design, renting tv series, hiking, the history channel, news junkie, I would rather play a sport than watch one, child mentorship, style shape shifting, bustin a move, books on audio, books, reading a book and talking about it with one another, exploration of breaking boundries and living WHO you are.

Last Five Books I Read

5. Running with Scissors
4. A Thousand Splendid Suns
3. The Last Time I Wore a Dress
2. The Kite Runner
1. The Glass Castle

Your turn……..

I prefer coffee over dinner at first with no pressure (light). Then moving on to dinner another time ~ if there is a connection. If I'm not trying in vain to impress you with my cooking by the third or fourth date - SOMETHING is wrong. LOL