The keys to success in a relationship... do you want to try?

Focus on the positive... try to think more about what you like about your partner than dislike. What do you enjoy about your life together?

Never break the trust, no matter how tempted. It won't be worth it. Once that precious trust is broken, things will never be the same... In that same vein, don't let unfounded jealousy eat up your precious time together.

Give each other space, and time alone... everyone needs this type of space, without explanation. Keep some of your own friends, interests and activities. You're not joined at the hip, you know. And cling to your own opinions, religious beliefs and political leanings. You don't have to think alike. Celebrate your differences, and accept each other's limitations.

Mutual respect... treat your mate as you would a good friend... this means no snooping in his mail, wallet, pockets or emails. Don't ask him for his password. Be courteous and say "please" and "thank you" to one another. And don't forget "I'm sorry", too.

Try something new together; a new hobby or activity. Fresh interests add excitement, and keeps your minds active and involved. Familiarity breeds contempt! Get out of your ruts!

Communication is the key... You needn't talk your relationship to death. But when things start to build up... like anger or resentment... de-fuse it by sitting down and talking... when there's no anger or alcohol involved.

Stay alluring... Will he still love you as a full-figured gal? Probably. But would he love it more if you stayed trim and attractive? You bet he would! It's a sad fact that one of the reasons men stray or leave the picture altogether, is they lose physical attraction to their mate. Maybe it's not fair... but we're talking reality here.

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A sunset walk